Personal Dating Tips
It only takes 4 seconds to make that first impression – seventy five percent of this is based on how you look whereas only two percent is based on what you say. Boring but true, you have these four seconds to make an impact and let the other person know you’re someone they want to spend more time with. We process so much information subconsciously that you really must make an effort to sort out your first impression.
Sending out the right signals is vitally important. If you do not you will attract the wrong individual for you and the main idea of dating is attracting! How you attract people is by conveying a correct and positive image that is a true indication of who you are. False messages will mean that you come across as false.
Everything you wear is a statement and reflects your self-image. People have psychological responses to your personal image and evaluate whom you are, what you do and what your interests may be – all from how you look! Body language
How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex? The key is to make yourself approachable. According to body language experts, you want to make yourself a “safe” (read approachable) target. How do you accomplish that? Don’t take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority)! Ladies, remember, your trying to get a man to come over and talk to you. You have to show you have room for someone else in your life.
In addition, be very approachable. ladies should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward according to experts. Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt – signal you’re listening to what the other person has to say. Guys, appearing more dominant effectively draws the attraction of women.
To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, and toes pointing outward. Feel free to take up some space. For men who are victims of the “nice guy” badge, or who appear to be too submissive to attract women, try taking your Y chromosome out for a spin. Remember to hold your head up, and speed up your speech and gestures to be more assertive.
Body language tips for both sexes: Don’t fold your arms and don’t chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. Apparently, chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions. So don’t do it!
Basic Rules Please help yourself stay happy and safe and stick to the following basic rules:
- Avoid giving out personal information like your mobile number and home address.
- Do not stay or remain longer than three miniutes . When the whistle blows, move on.
- Be nice to all persons, even if you do know them.
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